1. They don’t look before they leap.
Sometimes,
spontaneity is a good thing. However, it’s often good to do some
planning before tackling a big task. For example, don't go into a music
audition without looking at the music first that sets you up for
failure. Instead, practice until you feel ready to perform.
2. They don’t want it enough.
Often,
to get the things you want, you’re going to have to want it really
badly. This motivates you to do your absolute best. Try to envision
yourself succeeding at whatever you’re working toward. That way, you’ll
be pushed to do well.
3. They don’t look for alternatives.
So
what if something isn’t working out? Try tackling it from a different
angle. You might be surprised how many things you could accomplish if
you just tried approaching it in a slightly different way. This gives
you a completely new perspective and might end up in success.
4. They give up.
For
some people, failing once means never trying again. But there’s a lot
to be said for those who bounce back and keep trying. It shows
persistence and often leads to success. Don’t get too discouraged after
failing once or twice. Keep going and you’re more likely to get what you
want.
5. They don’t have a goal.
You
can’t succeed if you don’t know what you want. If you haven’t defined
what constitutes a success, you can’t ever reach it. Make sure you have a
very clear idea of what success means to you. That way, you have a
concrete goal in mind that you can work towards and eventually reach.
6. They don’t heed advice from others.
Listening
to those who have been in your shoes in the past can be very helpful.
Reach out to those who understand what you’re going through and have
accomplished what you’re working toward. They might just give you a
piece of advice that will change your entire view of the problem.
7. They listen to too much advice.
Conversely,
listening to too much advice at once can get confusing. Limit yourself
to a handful of people who really know what they’re talking about.
Chances are, many people who try to dole out advice don’t know much
about the subject. Only seek help from people who know exactly what
you’re going through and have the skill set to talk about the topic.
8. They have too many excuses.
Excuses
can only get you so far. Instead of making excuses as to why you’re
failing, try thinking about what the real reasons are for your failure.
The sooner you face these reasons, the sooner you can get back on track
to success. Address any major issues and get back on your feet as
quickly as possible.
9. They’re all talk and no show.
We
all know someone who talks a big game but never follows through. Don’t
be that person. Yes, you should plan and talk things out with others,
but don’t let that get in the way of actually doing something.
10. They misjudge.
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